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What NOT To Do Dating Series

Tired of hearing annoying dating advice? My Dating Diaries Series is all about what NOT to do. So get ready to laugh and not feel alone in the highs and lows of the dating game. It is, after all, just a game, and you are worth so much more than whether a guy likes you or not 😊

The struggles of being a naïve girl with no boy experience and finally experiencing the thrill of going on a date…it was my second date with a nice boy at college. At the end of the evening, he dropped me off at my door like a gentleman. Unexpectedly, he asked me, “Do you want to go on a second date? Where do you see this going?”

In that moment, a thousand panicked thoughts rushed through my mind with the force of a wild animal stampede. I was freaking out. I feel nothing towards this guy! I just love going on fun dates! Oh, but I don’t want to be rude! What do I do! As I scrambled to find a kind response that wasn’t a No, but really was a No, my brain finally came up with, “Whatever works for you.”

Yes, those were the literal words that came out of my mouth! The funny thing was I wasn’t trying to be rude, I was actually trying to be polite. Anyway, I think this boy still wanted to hang out with me after that, somehow. Now that I have more social experience, it’s hilarious to me that I would think that was an appropriate response. But hey, in the dating game, you gotta just do whatever works for you 🙂

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